The Beginning of Spring Break – Gridley
Posted by Jinny in Our Family on April 12, 2010
Our school district does Spring Break during the odd week of March 21st. It’s not near Easter, and it isn’t even spring yet! I think Ridgecrest just likes to be the craziest place to live in all the world. 
Our Spring Break started a little early, though, because the boys had a dentist appointment in Bakersfield the Thursday before, so Helaman missed that day of school, too. We thought it was going to just be a fun day out of town. They LOVED the dentist we took them to (Helaman tells me he can’t wait to get his teeth cleaned again!) and then we took them for some fun at our favorite John’s Incredible Pizza. Delicious pizza, fun games (that all work!), go-carts, it was a blast!
Omar’s mom’s car had broken down a few days earlier, and as the day went on we kept feeling like we needed to go to Gridley and help her with it and getting a replacement. So, we ended up driving back to Ridgecrest, packing up the car, and the driving back through Bakersfield on our way to Gridley. It was a LOT of driving. We took the scenic route on the way back to Bakersfield, following the Kern River as it wound through the mountains. It made the drive a lot longer, but it was beautiful, and way less annoying than driving through Tehachapi three times in one day.
Friday morning, Omar went to work on his mom’s car to fix it up for selling, and then spent the rest of the day with her looking for a new car that would be more reliable when we are so far away. Meanwhile, the boys and I had a blast.
My mom is teaching a life skills class, and they were doing a unit on taking care of kids, so she had the grandkids come to her class for the day. The boys and I got there early and made graham cracker/frosting sandwiches to serves as a snack. Helaman’s job was to teach the class how to play the cookie monster game. We practiced using a loud voice and giving directions while we frosted, and he did a great job when the class came in. The boys drew pictures on little white boards to show the class and had them guess what they were, then Helaman taught the game and we took them outside to play. Then they played Simon says, and I was surprised how many of them didn’t know how to play that game. Sad.
After the class time Tara and I took the kids to Subway for lunch, and then to park to play for a while. Isaiah and Ava were both ready for a nap, so I took the boys to my mom’s house and let Isaiah sleep. The boys had a slumber-party at Grandma’s that night, and Michael and Tara and Omar and I went on a date to some yummy Mexican food and frozen yogurt.
The boys love playing in my mom’s yard and helping in her garden. She said Isaiah was being so funny with the oranges because he was so stubborn about carrying all five of these. He would drop one and spend forever figuring out how to pick them all up again. He really is such a determined guy. She also has this tractor bike he was determined to ride, even though he had to slide way down in the seat to reach the pedals. He spent a half hour riding from the front porch to the back steps, refusing to give up. He makes me laugh.
When I could get Helaman into the house, this is where he would inevitably be found, playing Wii with Greta (or anyone that he could get to play with him!) He loved playing the Wii, and really wants to buy one for home, but mom is still a hold out. I like that he’s building things right now instead of being glued to the t.v. I may lose this battle eventually, but for now it still make Gridley even more exciting.
On Saturday Omar and his mom were still off car shopping. Llael took the boys to visit her dad and to the park for a bit while I took a shower and went flower shopping with my mom. Jelly said they really wanted to try the pruners and Isaiah insisted on trying to cut the biggest branch on the ground, and wouldn’t give up. Silly stubborn kid again. They had a lot of fun with her and then we all just hung out while Omar finished car shopping with his mom.
That’s quite a story in itself, he talked them down way under MSRP, and even then the guy ended up paying Omar money out of his pocket for his gas to drive the dealership. At one point he got so fed up with their games he pretended he was talking over the offer like they do for 15 minutes, and then told them no. Funny guy! He got her a great deal, though!
That night we had a BBQ with all of our family on both sides and laughed at these funny boys playing Wii. Helaman played this game until he was completely beat red, and then only stopped because the rest of us were too warn out and no one would race him any more.
The next day was Sunday. We had a delicious breakfast at Omar’s mom’s house and started for home. We stopped in Yuba City to say hello to Omar’s Uncle and his family, and we had way too much fun and stayed way longer than we meant to. We finally got home late Sunday night. It was a fun trip, and a great start to Helaman’s first ever spring break.
Late at night when all the world is sleeping…
It’s late, and everyone is fast asleep but me. Isaiah couldn’t sleep because he had a late nap today, and he stayed up with me until about a half hour ago. But now it’s just me in a noisy dark house. The fish tank bubbling and the clock ticking and the rain machine in the boy’s room are all so loud when you are alone in the dark. I tried to go to sleep, but it’s even noisier in my room with a husband who is so tired he snores sometimes. I love that I can hear him there next to me sleeping. But I can’t fall asleep to it.
So instead I am up thinking about how blessed I am.
My poor tired Omar who works so hard every day so I can stay home and play with our babies. I never have a question in my mind about how important we are to him, because he shows us in a million ways every day.
Like getting up early and getting dressed in the dark so he won’t wake me up. And like waking me up so he can kiss me before he leaves as quietly as he can because I’ve probably gone back to sleep.
It takes him an hour (at least!) to put the boys to bed at night because the talk and tell jokes and stories about a mouse named Charlie who lives in a house made of cheese and finds tunnels in his backyard that lead to other worlds. He is so patient and kind with them. And they love him to pieces.
And my little opposite boys are such a blessing. They couldn’t be more different, and yet they love each other so completely. They are perfect for each other. They are perfect for me.
And don’t tell anyone I said it, but today it feels like a blessing that we live in Ridgecrest. We have people who love us and who we love. We get to ride motorcycles out of our garage and right into the mountains. We go hiking and exploring, and learn about tortoises at the musuem and dig holes in our sandy back yard.
The desert really is beautiful in it’s own way. I even love the desert.
We have everything we need, and a lot of things we just want. We are surrounded by angels who help us in a million ways every day. We get to be a family forever!
I’m grateful that XL sodas are 99 cents at McDonalds so I can stay up all night and think about this. Well, mostly….
Goodnight world. (I hope!)
Hiking with Trevor
Posted by Jinny in Our Family on March 8, 2010
We went hiking again last week. Dad goes to Taco Bell with his friends for lunch on Thursdays, so we always do something fun that day since we aren’t having lunch with him (which is our fun the rest of the time). This time we got to take Trevor with us, and it was lots of fun. They loved checking out all the cool rocks and cacti.
The next picture is just to show how high they climbed. It was pretty hard work, I was proud of them. But they were all tired and ready to go by the end. If you look close you can see Ridgecrest in the background waaaay down behind them.
Then we went to McDonald’s for lunch, came home and watched Monster v. Aliens and played tag and “cookie-monster” and golfed in the front yard. Thanks for playing with us Trev!
New Car!
Posted by Jinny in Our Family on March 8, 2010
We did finally get a new car! Omar sold the truck a few weeks ago, and we used the money from that to buy this new van. It was basically a straight across trade! It’s a 2005 Chevy Venture with 47,000 miles. That’s the newest care we’ve ever owned, and we can’t believe how nice it is! It’s basically our same van, just newer with a few new toys. I love it!
Omar’s driving the old van for now, maybe I’ll have a new car post again soon, knowing him… Although he really loves the van, so it might be a while.
San Diego Zoo
Posted by Jinny in Our Family on March 8, 2010
Some friends of ours had tickets to the zoo that were going to expire before they could go, so they kindly shared them with us! Omar left a little early on Thursday from work, and we headed for the South Land.
We decided to break the trip up a little by stopping at the Bass Pro Shop again. Our boys just can’t get enough (including the big one). This time mom remembered quarters so they could practice shooting things, too. And the best part (from my point of view) was there was a huge sale on Columbia clothing and I got some really cute stuff really cheap. There was some famous NASCAR driver there that night, with news crews and long lines and stuff, but we didn’t care enough to remember his name. It just made it more exciting, though. Omar liked checking out his car in the parking lot, and the boys got balloons. It was a nice fun break in the long drive.
Then we went and spent the night at Fernando’s house. The little guys love hanging out there, and for some reason think sleeping on air matresses is the best thing in the world. Then the next morning we got up and drove to San Diego. I haven’t been there since I was 2, but it was super cool. Well, the part where the zoo is located is super cool, we found some scary parts when we were leaving.
We decided to leave our monstrous stroller at home and rent one at the zoo. The guys thought it was the coolest thing. Anything mechanical or transportation related is, I guess, the coolest thing.
Helaman and Isaiah thought the animals were so cool. Helaman’s favorites were the ant-eater and the otters. Isaiah loved the gorillas. There was a little baby gorilla that was playing with the kids through the glass. It was so cute. I couldn’t get over how human-like they were. I could have stayed and watched them all day. Those this super cute scene was my favorite:
We had a great day. The San Diego Zoo is so huge, I don’t think we saw everything, but it was still really fun. And really exhausting. We were all completed dying by the end of the day.
The next day, Saturday, was entirely spent in fruitless car shopping. We though we wanted an Explorer, but nothing seemed right. At the end of the looooong boring day we took the kids to the Lego Store in Downtown Disney. They thought that was pretty cool, and I think it made up for some of the terrible day.
Flowers!
Posted by Jinny in Our Family on March 8, 2010
When we first moved into our house there were many things that needed to be changed. We got to work on the inside right away, painting and repairing crazy problems. The outside got no help for a long time. This picture was taken right when we moved in. One of my least favorite things about the outside of the house were these scraggly bushes. For some reason everyone in our neighborhood wants a barrier to their front door (most people have WALLS). We had these ugly unhealthy bushes. Omar took the rose bush, that grabbed you as you walked by, out as one of the first things we did, but then the bushes remained. Until…. Thanksgiving!
When Omar’s family was here they were an amazing help. We got lots of things done that had been waiting forever, including BUSH REMOVAL! I was so happy to get rid of those ugly things. Then we walked around in the desert across the street from our house and made a cute little rock garden. We found some really cool rocks! I told Omar I’m going to be sad to leave that behind when we move, but I am pretty sure, unless we have movers again, we won’t be packing up my cool rocks.
And then a few months later, when it got warm enough, my boys helped me plant some flowers in our rock garden. Here is the far away shot of the front of our house now. It was taken in the shade, so it’s not the best, but you get the idea. We also replaced the little chintzy lights that were on our house, and that made a big difference, too.
And here are some close up shots of my flowers!
Grandma Came!
Posted by Jinny in Our Family on March 8, 2010
Grandma and Greta came for Valentine’s Day. My boys were so excited, they could hardly take it! We didn’t go home for Christmas this year, and it had been a long time since we’d gotten to see them. We were so glad they were willing to drive down here and play with us! We played games, and were silly, and ate Doritos (yum! Thanks for stealing them, Greta!) and went to a Greek Restaurant (thank Mom, it was great!) and just generally enjoyed each other for the first day they were here.
Grandma also brought presents of course! She brought the boys some cool new games, these awesome sweaters they love from Michael & Tara and LEGOS from Chris. I had some very hyper, happy boys on my hands. They really do love these sweaters, Helaman loves soft stripes and Isaiah loves being exactly like Helaman, and is super thrilled. He calls it his favorite jacket.
The legos were a huge hit, too. After everyone left, Helaman did nothing but play with these legos for a few days straight. It’s still one of his favorite things to do. He can’t believe how many cool legos he has, and keeps making us super cool inventions. I appreciate that Isaiah can play with them, too. With the sets I am always so paranoid about him losing a piece, it’s been nice to just let them play!
The next morning we slept in and then headed out to the L.A. Temple apartments. We checked in and dropped off our stuff, took a bunch of pictures, then headed to the beach.
We were going to go to the Santa Monica Pier with Michael and Tara, but we were all running sooo late we just headed for the beach instead.
We hadn’t planned on going to the beach, so no one was dressed appropriately. But that didn’t stop the boys and Ava from wanting to play in the cold cold water. Okay, I wanted to play, too. Only my mom and Tara stayed high and dry. Which was smart, because we all froze! But it was still lots of fun.
Michael was cracking me up feeding the little birds. They would make seagull noises and he would drop food into their mouth. He’s always such a fun uncle with his kid brain!
Isaiah missed his nap and was so tired he almost fell asleep face first in the sand while the rest of us watched the beautiful sunset. Then Omar and I went to the temple while Grandma stayed at the apartment with sleeping Isaiah and Michael and Tara took Helaman and Greta and the girls on an adventure. (Thanks guys!) We were supposed to stay at the apartments that night and go see Billy in the morning while his ship was docked in L.A., but Isaiah got sick, and I went home with my boys. Everyone else stayed there, then came to our house to play the next day. We took the kids on four-wheeler rides, and Michael and Omar went on a long ride in the desert. Then we had BBQ and just laughed at our crazy kids. Everyone left the next day.
We had a great time with everyone! Thanks for coming to see us, we sure love our family!
Valentines
Helaman had his first Valentine’s Day party at preschool this year. We made our own Valentine’s because he loves to do crafts, and they are just cooler anyway. His favorite candy is tootsie rolls, so we had to find a way to incorporate that into our theme, of course. I was really proud of him for working so hard to make all of these. Although, he got really tired of writing his looooooong name on the back of them, so I took pity and just let him write the H and I wrote the rest. I thought they were pretty cute! He loved handing them out to all of his friends, and family, and teachers. It was really cute.
Oh, and hey, I like the way you roll!
A Wicked Weekend
It never rains in Ridgecrest, let alone snow. That is until this year. Rain and rain and rain, and the weekend I was supposed to go to Wicked in San Francisco, snow. It was cool, and cold, and beautiful. The problem was, if it kept up, we may end up trapped in this valley. All the roads out of our little valley close in a good snow, last Christmas it was for 3 days! The boys thought the snow was awesome, though. Omar couldn’t get enough of it, he stood outside taking pictures and enjoying it for a couple of hours. My babies liked catching it on their tongues, and making patterns in it once it started sticking. (We did eventually put coats and hats and gloves on them, when it wasn’t stopping!) They enjoyed it for about a half hour, and then decided they didn’t like the cold and wet all that much after all. Little desert rats!
The snow really stuck more than this, but by the end Omar had switched to taking pictures on his phone, and I don’t have those. I think there was probably a good stuck inch on the ground by the end of it. We were supposed to be leaving for Wicked the next morning, but watching the weather decided our best chance of getting through was going to be at 5 that night. One friend, Christina, was supposed to be flying into Inyokern from Utah (through L.A.) that night, but all those flights were canceled due to weather, so she changed her flight to meet us in SF the next morning. According to the weather on my phone, we made it through Tehachapi (up in the mountains) right before it started snowing hard there. We spend the night at my friend Carol’s sister’s house in Fresno, and woke up to a delicious breakfast the next morning. Then we left to go play in SF while we waited for Christina’s flight to come in.
Well, good thing we left so early! It tooks us hours to get to SF because of traffic on the freeway due to an accident. We ended up creating our own detour and made it just in time to get Christina, whose flight had thankfully been delayed! By the time we got her, it was time to check into our hotel and get some dinner, since none of us had eaten in all the madness.
We stayed at the Hilton in downtown SF. It was beautiful and elegant, super fun! We found out from the concierge that all the restaurants around there were closed, but a few were having happy hour with appetizers. We ended up going to an Italian Restaurant in downtown that was great. Rebecca even had wild boar! Then we walked back to the hotel to get ready for the show. You can tell we were all mom’s because we got ready way too fast and then didn’t know what to do with ourselves, but we had a great time just sitting around talking.
And then to Wicked! It was fantastic! I’ve really missed theater since there is no more Music Circus for me down here in Ridgecrest. The show was great, the set was great, I loved it! The story was WAY different from the book, but they changed it in ways that made it a much happier story, and great for kids, even. I really enjoyed it! Then we caught a bus back to downtown and went and had a midnight dinner (for Carol, whose always wanted to do that!) at a downtown diner. I’ve never really been in that part of San Francisco before. It’s pretty crazy to be surrounded by tall close together buildings. I had a hard time getting a sense of direction. But, I really liked it, too. I still think it would be fun to live in the city.
We were going to go to the Oakland Temple on Saturday. Carol and I were both sealed in that temple, and I was really excited to go back. I love that temple! But, it was closed for maintenance that weekend, so we decided to drive back to Fresno and go to the temple there instead. We got to meet 2 of Carol’s sisters there and then go out to eat with them afterward, which was fun.
I was really grateful for the chance to get to go to the temple. It’s hard when you are 3 hours away and have two little guys to deal with to be able to go. It’s so peaceful inside the temple, it’s exactly the calm I need.
No trip out of town would be complete without a trip to Costco (at least for those of us who live in Ridgecrest). So after lunch we made a stop and filled up the van with groceries.
And then home. It was so good to see my boys, but I think Omar was the only who missed me. He kept the boys busy having so much fun, they keep asking when I’m going to leave again. I think they went out to eat every meal (including a trip out of town to Chukee Cheese).
And he learned why I don’t give them baths very often, and never together! I’m so grateful for my sweet husband who let me go and was such a good sport about it. I had a great time. I never realized how much I need girl friends, but it was awesome! Thanks for coming with me girls!